So far I don't really have any new year's resolutions. I usually don't but if there are any changes in my life I want to make, I will try to make them and not punish myself at the end of the year for not keeping the resolution.
|Shelby took our picture|
2013 did have it's ups & downs. We added a new member of the family - a tiny little black kitten named Salem (who at this moment is going crazy chasing a little ball around that the cats got for Christmas). She's still tiny and very much an active kitten - I'm so glad Gizmo doesn't growl at her any more. He just looks at her at times like "kitten, calm the F down (F for "fun" calm the fun down lol) I've got this thing going on where I lay around sleeping all day and night - now they're expecting things out of me like playing". He also paces - my "child" cat paces.
2013 is the year where something happened that I never thought would. I became "un-speaking" terms with my brother. I never wrote about it on my blog but oh wrote so much about it on Facebook. It was something that should never had made us how we are today. But his wife is a soul-less person who used Facebook to pick on innocent children - and not just any child - it was my kids! To put it brief, she called Shelby (7 at the time) ugly and Lucas (4 at the time) retarded. Her true comments are a lot worse than just the words "ugly & retarded" and my brother defended her saying "oh when she's upset she says things" Of this I know is true in the past because she has made up lies when she's mad. But this was un-exceptable. Her words were even un-warrented. For my parents defending their grandchildren, my brother doesn't even talk to them. And that is the saddest part of it all. But it's not over because Soul-less still continues to taunt my mother. Latest was a Christmas card that told my parents they were having their second child. What's really funny about this was that news travels fast and we knew about this a month before. Same way we know about Soul-less getting arrested for fraud after wrecking her car and then leaving the scene of the accident to go buy insurance. But how the card was meant to say was - we're giving you another grandchild that you'll never see. There have been other taunts threw out the year and I am getting to the point of why I am really writing about this now. Just in case they are reading this - just in case the Soul-less person who is married to my brother ever checks out my blog I am here saying this: 2014 - watch out! I will no longer let you prey on those you believe are weak. If anymore harassment comes to my mother or anyone else I love, I will put a stop to it.
Ok, well there's that. 2014 is a new year that will bring many joys and positives into our lives. That I know because any negatives can go right into the trash.
Have a great year everybody out there!
|gummy bear art work to bring in the new year by Shelby|